Things I (probably) never hear or experience

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I’m probably the least fortuitous person in this world. Well, one of them. There are people who have it worse than me. I have a roof over my head and I can afford to buy things. But sometimes I wish I could have more luck in certain things. Here’s a list of things I (probably) never hear or experience.

Get hired because I’m an awesome and talented person
This is the first one on the list because this is something I’ve never been lucky in. I’m never been in the right place at the right time. You need to have some luck with the job search. Another thing is the skill. Especially in the design business, it’s very important. It’s also about who you know. Even though I’ve studied doesn’t mean I’ll get a job in it. It doesn’t help to have an online portfolio. Profile on LinkedIn and how active I am on social media. I’m no dream for employers when it comes to personality either. I’ll never hear, “I saw your portfolio and we want to hire you” Maybe not with those words but something like that. Job search is a circus where you have to be a clown to get noticed. As an introvert, this is not right. I think that’s one of the reasons why I never get a job. I’m not good at marketing myself. The whole concept of branding yourself is weird. I’ve got too many gaps in my resume so employers probably think I’ve been lazy or have some mental problems. I could have the latter by now but I don’t. Luck just hasn’t been on my side when it comes to this.

Getting best friends forever
I’ve never been good with finding friends. A lot of so-called friends were rotten. One pretended to be my friend but then talked bad things about me to someone else. I never found a best friend that I would still be in contact with. I had a friend in preschool but she moved to another city. I met a lot of people since childhood but I never found someone that ‘clicked’ with me. I’ve learned to be alone and that’s better than having fake friends.

Meeting someone of the opposite sex
This is the same as with the friendship thing. This subject goes to the private thing so I won’t go into detail. I’ll never meet (name should go here) If I did, he wouldn’t like me the way I like him. Because why should he? No one has ever been interested in my like that in real life anyway. I don’t fall easily for anyone either. I always want someone I can’t have. Let’s just leave it at that.

Dreaming and make it real
I’ve read a lot of stories about how someone has followed their dream and made it come true. But I’m not that ambitious. When things don’t work out I give up and do something else. I’m also too indecisive. I get an idea but then change my mind. No wonder I never achieve anything. I’m too much of a coward so I blame it on bad luck. If not that, the lazy person I am. Other success stories should motivate me but the fear is in the way so I just dream. Even the most successful people have fears but I don’t get over them. Saying get over it is like saying to a person who has broken their leg to walk it off. Failure is also a thing that can make a person not to do anything about their dream. I’ve always had a doubt in my mind that I’m the failing one because I’m not fortuitous in a lot of things.

Meeting someone or experience something by chance
Last but not least. I believe only other people meet people by chance. I never found new friends on holidays. Not when I was a child nor as an adult. I don’t travel much but when I do, I never talk to anyone by chance and not the other way around. At least nothing good ever comes out the little chances I get. I’ve seen Finnish celebrities in places I’ve been to and once bumped into one but that’s not the chances I mean. Chances like meeting someone you didn’t accept to meet and it would change your life. If it had I wouldn’t be where I am now. Nowhere special. I never accidentally ended up somewhere by chance. If it’s career choice or something personal. Not everyone will meet someone or experience something by chance. Sometimes you need to work on it yourself. If it’s meant to happen it will. Or it might not. You never know.

So there you have it. Never say never which is the reason I wrote (probably) Life is full of surprises. For example, a year ago I found out I had 2 cousins. I always thought I only had one. We should think more about the things we got. You need to accept that some things you can’t have no matter how much you want it. If you’re fortuitous or not.

I loop you

loop collageI loop you

I can’t say I love you because I don’t know you

But I can say I loop you

It’s a feeling that come and goes

One day I think it’s gone but then it comes back again

I loop you so much I think I’m going mad

I’m not in love but it’s the feeling you give me

You’re worlds apart and we’ll never meet

There’s no end to this loop I’m going through

Out of sight out of mind but it doesn’t work

I loop you and I can’t stop

If this was love I would feel even bluer

Loving someone from afar is hard

But when I say I loop you it doesn’t feel so bad

I wish I could be the one that makes you smile

I know the difference between fact and fiction

What I think about you is not real but I can’t help it

I loop you and maybe one day that feeling is gone

I wish one day I found someone like you

But that’s a lost cause because you’re one of a kind

I loop you and that never seems to stop

 

Tallenna

Tallenna

Tallenna

Tallenna

Simply irresistible

cream cake

Simple irresistible

I thought I wouldn’t but I did

I shouldn’t have but I got myself to blame

You’re simple irresistible

It makes me mad inside

I can’t get you out of my mind

You appear in my dreams

I tell you to leave me alone

But you’re simple irresistible

I look at you and realize I can’t have you

If I did, I would never leave

I want to close my eyes when you speak

But I can’t resist to look

You’re simply irresistible and I have to

You’re sweet as a cake and I’m not faking it

If you only knew how bad I want to know you

There’s no one like you, I know I tried

I rather be alone than find someone else

You’re simply irresistible and somewhat fictional

Maybe we meet in the next life time or we may not

I wish it was now but you’re too irresistible