Having copious of followers doesn’t mean a thing

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Yesterday when I was scrolling my Pinterest feed, I came across a pin about why companies fail. There was this tip about having followers on social media etc. It was about a business but it’s good advice for blogging too. Having copious of followers on your blog doesn’t mean they actually read your blog. I always say the quality is better than quantity. You can have thousands of followers but you can never guarantee how many of them actually read the blog. Maybe some only collect followers so they can feel good about themselves. Blogging is not only for reading but also for interacting with others. I can understand if you don’t know what to say or you’re shy about leaving a comment. I don’t always comment on other people’s blogs either. Only writing ‘Great post’ isn’t really constructive. A like is better than an unimaginative comment.

There is a lot of tips about how to gain more followers but you can forget that. A lot of those tips are about how to get customers. Not so much about blogging as a hobby. Getting followers is a marathon. It takes time. Some blogs might get more in a short time but for some, it takes longer. It’s not a competition where the person with the most follows in a week or a month gets a big prize. Promoting your blog on social media is waste of time if you ask me. If your blog is on WordPress, only people who also are on it can follow your blog. Correct me if I’m wrong. None of my friends on Facebook or even on Twitter read blogs. I don’t think anyone has found this blog on social media even if I post there regularly. Especially on Twitter. It’s like talking to a wall sometimes. It’s more likely to get readers to your blog through WordPress Reader than on social media.

Having followers and having readers is two different things. Many celebrities have millions of followers but how many of them actually read what they write. Maybe people only follow them because it’s cool. None of these celebs interacts with their fans for real. How would they have time anyway? Sometimes you can see some of them responding to their fans. Like Pink or Stephen Fry. It’s not an issue for them if people are followers or readers. For them, it’s just sharing things. For us ‘normal’ people it’s more important. Maybe not everyone but some of us rather have readers to our blogs than just followers. We want to share things but we also want interaction. You really can’t wait for people to find your blog. You have to comment on other people’s blog post too. This is something I forget about it myself. I try to reply to every comment I get. If I don’t, at least I like the comment just to prove I read it.

Having too many followers and following a lot is a bit superficial. No one has that much time so they could read every blog they follow. I would rather follow a blog if I actually read it. Some people brag about how many followers they have. It’s really off-putting. You got to have some dignity and not sell yourself short. I wonder if these people ever got enough attention at home or why do they have such urge to get noticed. If you want to become an internet prostitute, be my guest. Most of us want to keep our self-respect. Our life is not about how many followers we have. Having copious of followers doesn’t mean a thing. It’s about people who actually care.

Brilliant Liebster Award

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Got nominated for this brilliant blog award, The Liebster Award. Thank you, The Dream Girl Writes. I got one of these when I started out with this blog. At the time I didn’t follow that many blogs. Most of the blogs I follow now already have this award so it won’t be easy to find that many blogs to give this award to. So I apologise if I don’t really follow all these rules.

THE RULES:

  1. Mention and acknowledge the blog that nominated you, and display the award logo.
  2. Answer the 11 questions that the blogger who nominated you gave you.
  3. Tell 11 facts about yourself.
  4. Nominate between 5-12 blogs.
  5. Also, make sure to notify these bloggers of their nomination.
  6. Finally, give them 11 questions to answer.

The Questions from The Dream Girl Writes

1. If you had a pet or want to have a pet what would it be, it’s name and why?

I always loved bunnies. They were the only animals I wasn’t afraid to touch. If I had one, finding a name would be hard. It depends on what it looked and what kind of personality they would have. Loki would be kind of fun though. I’m really into characters from movies or TV.

2. What is the dumbest way you have injured yourself?

I don’t know dumbest but I did sit with my legs crossed in 1994 and then I couldn’t straighten my left leg. I had to have my knee operated to get it back to normal. It was an injury athlete usually get and I’m not one.

3. What are your hobbies?

Cycling, writing fanfiction, photography and blogging of course

4. If you got to know you had only 48 hours to live, what would you do and why?

Cry that I’m gonna die. When I’ve done with that, I probably take all my money from the bank and travel to the mountains of Switzerland. I would talk to everyone I meet and if I meet really nice people, we would laugh a lot. Build snowmen, have snowball fights. I love snow so I would make the most of my last hours.

5. One dream of yours you wish it would come true.

Date Tom Hiddleston. But seriously. Getting a job is my current dream.

6. Favourite TV show?

Game of thrones, BBC Sherlock and British comedies

7. What is the first thing you think of when you wake up?

Is it that late already?

8. What would you do if you were stranded in a island with your ex?

Who the hell are you? Get off my island. I would say.

9. What makes you happy?

Music and comedies. Watching movies I’ve seen a lot of times. Happy people.

10. What do you think when you look into the mirror?

I try to avoid mirrors. I only look in them when I do my morning routines.

11. All time favourite song?

I have so many. The world is full of awesome songs. The 80’s is the best. Especially Duran Duran who still makes great music. I hate the new stuff that is around now.

11 facts:

  1. I don’t like reading books
  2. When I was a child I pretended to have a radio show. I still have that tape somewhere
  3. I love winter
  4. I like animals but I don’t like to touch them
  5. My relatives are all money hungry so I don’t keep in touch with them
  6. I’m a Gemini and an introvert
  7. I call my mobile Hayden after the actor Hayden Christensen
  8. I have dark blue eyes
  9. I’ve been to Finnish Lapland since I was 2 months old. Haven’t been there for years though
  10. I learn best when I do things rather than reading about it
  11. I love watching sport. Especially icehockey

Nominations:

Breaking the rules here. Anyone who reads this post. Followers or not. Feel free.

My Questions:

  1. How long have you been blogging?
  2. Who’s your favourite actors/actresses?
  3. Do you sing in the shower?
  4. How many languages can you speak? Say at least one word of it and what it means.
  5. Mac or PC?
  6. What was your dream job as a child?
  7. What’s your favourite band or artist?
  8. Do you watch Marvel movies? If so which is your favourite?
  9. What’s your secret skill?
  10. Do you use sugar and milk in your coffee or tea?
  11. What smell do you hate and love?

Phew that was kind of a long post. I hope you all didn’t fall asleep. This is the end of this ‘brilliant’ post.