Dominate versus submission

dom vs sub

Before anyone even considering what the post title really say, this post has nothing to do with sex. This is about holding your ground and not letting other people dominate you. It’s easy to do what others want you to do because you don’t want to hurt people’s feelings. But sometimes you can’t please everybody. You have to learn to say no. We’re not robots who never gets tired. You might think some people never sleep. Especially young people who seem to be out late at night on a weekday. Everybody needs enough of rest to function.

I hate when people want me to do things if I don’t feel like it or I’m too tired. In a way, I’m lucky I don’t have a boss or friends who want me to come to places. Other people stress me out. According to my father, I’m always been stubborn since I was a child. I’m always had my own mind. I’m not easily ‘corrupted’ I don’t believe everything I hear or see. I don’t follow trends that others seem to. It feels like I’m one of the few who still can think for themselves. You can be the smartest person on the planet but still, have no common sense. I want to dominate my own life and sometimes someone else. I don’t force people to do things but I do wish they could think for themselves.

The only time when I can be submissive is in a job where I get paid to do an assignment Even then there is a limit. If a job takes over my relax time, then I can say no. No job should be that important that you can’t have another life. So being both dominated and submissive is good but not all the time. You need to be nice to people but not let them walk over you. Too much is too much in every aspect of life.